Am I A Queer Imposter?

Just because I so easily pass for a straight married woman

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When I was first awakening to my sexuality, way back in the 1980s, the term queer was a slur. It hadn’t yet been reclaimed, but it’s not like I would have used it to refer to myself anyhow, because back then I just assumed I was straight, and I had no real reason to think otherwise. I was sexually attracted to boys and men, and…




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