Can Recording Yourself Make You a Better Lover?
Making a solo video for yourself or your lover can spice up your sex life in new and exciting ways.
It’s 2024 and I think most people have made a sex tape. When we think about recording ourselves having sex, it’s usually with a partner or partners. Unfortunately, these have a negative connotation, as so many of them have been leaked or outright shared on ex shaming sites when relationships ended.
But what about recording ourselves during solo play and sharing with our lover?
Over the years, I’ve been recorded a few times, but I have never been happy with the results. I have a difficult time forgetting about the camera. One I didn’t mind, was a recording from many years ago of me giving oral to a former male lover. It was hot watching myself do something I love, seeing the look in my eyes as I looked up at him, his cock going in and out of my mouth.
I also loved that even years after we were no longer together, he would occasionally send an email and tell me he still went back to this recording — that it would forever live in his virtual (and physical) spank bank.
Another I loved is the one my husband and I made for Char, our former girlfriend. We were using Marco Polo at the time, and set up my…
