How Do You Know If You Have a Healthy Sex Life?

Here are 10 clear signs

Demeter V Delune
Sensual: An Erotic Life
4 min readNov 26, 2024

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Whether you’re in a new relationship, playing the field, or in a long-term commitment, it’s natural to wonder if you have a healthy sex life. The truth of the matter is, what constitutes a good sex life means something different for everyone. If you’re getting what you want and need, and you feel comfortable communicating your wants and needs with your partner, your sex life is probably pretty great.

A healthy sex life is important no matter what your relationship status is, but the good news is, feeling connected with your own body, as well as your partner’s, is actually a pretty easy way to get in tune with your sex drive, no matter what your friends, neighbors, or friends on social media are up to.

10 clear signs of a healthy sex life

1. You masturbate.

We’re all busy, but whether you’ve been married for decades or flying solo, you should be taking some time to explore your own body and find out what feels good to you. Plenty of people think of sex as something that requires two (or more!) participants, but solo sex is an easy, healthy way to find out what you enjoy. Yes, even if you’re partnered up.

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Sensual: An Erotic Life
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Demeter V Delune
Demeter V Delune

Written by Demeter V Delune

S*x educator, Freelance Writer for hire, Journalist. Words in Passionfruit, Pleaser, MamaMia, Giddy, Petit Mort, Daily Dot, Your Tango| demeterdelune.com

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