How to spice up our sex life to save our marriage
Sex advice by Deni, a woman who knows…
Dear Deni,
I am a 46y/o MWM and I have been married for 23 years. I am having some difficulty with intimacy problems between me and my wife.
Are you playing ‘hard to wet’?
One of the things is that she has problems making her own natural lubrication and has to have a bottle of K-Y lubrication oil at the side of the bed. Sometimes, to me, it distracts from making love to her. I do perform oral sex with her. I start by kissing her on the lips and making my way down her body. I don’t just jump right in there and start right in, sucking and caressing her vagina. She likes to move up and down her body to make her feel tingly all over.
I do this for about 5 to 10 minutes and then move to her vagina for about the same time, hoping this will build up her lubrication. Not too long after I penetrate her, she starts getting dry, and I have to pull while she re-lubricates herself. This sometimes kills the mood. She has been to doctors to find out what is causing this, and they give her some cream she has to vaginally insert and another cream she rubs on her wrist like she is putting on perfume.
