How You Can Stimulate the Prostate Without Insertion

Perineum stimulation and massage is pleasurable, and easy to do alone or with a partner.

Demeter V Delune
Sensual: An Erotic Life
4 min readMar 26, 2023

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Prostate stimulation is a good way for men to experience orgasm in a new and exciting way. However, not all men are comfortable with the idea of something being inserted into their anus. So, how do you achieve the stimulation you want, without doing something that makes you uncomfortable? It’s possible to stimulate it from the outside, through the perineum.

The perineum is the patch of skin located between the anus and the scrotum. Popular terms for this area include taint, gouche, grundle, or gooch. Since it’s nearby the internal prostate gland, stimulating it from the outside can bring similar sensations to actual prostate massage. How is it you haven’t heard about perineum pleasure or orgasms before now? Given the inconsistencies in sex education around the world, many of us aren’t fully aware of our anatomy, much less how it all works.

Sadly, a lot of us don’t take the time to explore our own bodies due to the shame impressed upon us by society. It’s rare to see perineum massage explored in pornography, even though this isn’t where we should be getting our sex education from it is a go-to for a lot of folks, so it makes sense that men don’t think about…

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Sensual: An Erotic Life
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Demeter V Delune
Demeter V Delune

Written by Demeter V Delune

S*x educator, Freelance Writer for hire, Journalist. Words in Passionfruit, Pleaser, MamaMia, Giddy, Petit Mort, Daily Dot, Your Tango| demeterdelune.com