I Feel Both Aroused and Enraged When Men Beg for Sex

It all comes down to consent.

I once had an exciting dynamic going with a submissive. He’d tell me how hard his dick was and demand that I release him from his suffering. He wanted me to pleasure him and he wanted it now. But that didn’t mean I always gave him what he desired.



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Emme Witt

Writer and journalist. As seen in NYPost, Vice, Mic, & Cosmo. Words in MetroUK, Insider, The Daily Dot. Forthcoming memoir: “F-Girl."