Is FetLife The Best Website To Find A No-Strings Hook-Up?

I tested it to find out.

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Fetlife is social media for the BDSM, fetish and kinky community. But can it get you laid?

It’s not marketed as a hook-up website, or even as an online dating service. But it is the most sexually charged social media website — and you can DM as many people as you want.

So, it should be easy enough to arrange a fun sexual experience on this website, right?

You’ll find every type of kinky woman on Fetlife

FetLife users are nicknamed ‘kinksters’. There are supposedly tens of millions across the world.

At the time of writing, there were roughly 380,000 in New York, 647,000 in California and another 380,000 in Florida.

So, you’ll be spoiled for choice, no matter what type of kinky partner you’re looking for.

This is a NSFW website and users aren’t shy about posting explicit content. In many ways, it’s a hardcore porn website where you can message the stars and ask them to meet you.

But how likely is it that they’ll agree?

To find out, I messaged 50 women in Columbus, Ohio. This is the city I always use to test dating apps. Using it again allows me to…