Is Love An Action or a Feeling?

We can’t choose who we love any more than we can choose who we are sexually attracted to

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A few years ago I got into a discussion with a friend about the nature of love. He believed that love was primarily a set of things that you do to be of service to someone else. While I can certainly understand behaving in a loving way to be one expression of…




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Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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