It’s Not Women’s Fault That Hookup Culture Has Made Men Lazy AF

Men need to take ownership of their own dating laziness.

In her recent piece, Why A Horny Woman Will Turn Down The Guaranteed Sex Of A Dating App, Lisa Martens bemoans the dearth of romance in modern dating, even if a woman just wants sex.

There’s a lack and a need on dating apps of men…



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Emme Witt

Writer and journalist. As seen in NYPost, Vice, Mic, & Cosmo. Words in MetroUK, Insider, The Daily Dot. Forthcoming memoir: “F-Girl."