As Much as I Love Sex With Men, I Can Always Please Myself

We can steal back our pleasure from the legislators who want to control our bodies

Photo by Marcela Alessandra at Pexels

Everyone knows those irritating parents who are forever sharing pictures of their children.

Instead, I’ve started sharing pictures of my sex toys.




We publish essays, and poetry about sex, sexuality and erotic relationships.

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Danielle Loewen

Danielle Loewen

she/her | reader | queer feminist | recovering academic | body lover | gamer | poet & fabulist

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