My Twin Flame Is Dating Someone Else

And for the most part, I feel pretty good about it

Elle Beau ❇︎
Sensual: An Erotic Life

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I used to write a lot about Twin Flame relationships and about the ups and downs with my longtime partner Nat. Despite our frequent problems, I viewed him as my partner for life, a second life partner in addition to my husband, James. But then, about 3 years ago, things fell apart.

This isn’t all that surprising. Twin Flames often go in cycles of parting and being drawn back together. We’d broken up once before and found our way back to each other, and after the falling out in 2021, we did find our way back again, although mostly as friends. But, I didn’t really want to be friends, and at times, I felt that he wasn’t even pulling his weight as a friend, so things started to deteriorate.

Then his wife died suddenly, and I felt I couldn’t just abandon him at such a time. I hung around for another 8 months, supporting him in picking up the pieces of his shattered life. I knew he was hurting, but I also knew by then that even without that, he wasn’t able to be who I wanted him to be in my life. I’d tried very hard to just accept him as he was, but sometimes it wasn’t just ego needs that were getting left unmet — it was soul needs.

We stopped talking in September of 2023. The only exception to that was the anniversary of his…

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Elle Beau ❇︎
Sensual: An Erotic Life

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