Pregnant Pro-Dommes Crush the Madonna/Whore Complex

They destroy the belief they’re too “fragile” or aren’t “hot enough” to do dominatrix work while pregnant.

Emme Witt-Eden
Sensual: An Erotic Life
6 min readJun 18, 2021

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Pro-domme Empress Ming in her gorgeous pregnant state. Courtesy: Empress Ming.

Meet Empress Ming. She is stunning in her sheer mesh costume, towering confidently in her thigh-high, platform boots over the men who bow at her feet. She wields a cat-o-nine-tails and yet with the way her soft belly rounds out prominently, it’s undeniable that she’s pregnant.

And she’s just as alluring as any professional dominatrix who isn’t.

Empress Ming, an Atlanta, Georgia-based dominatrix, is among a number of current pro-dommes who are refusing to stop working through their pregnancies. Sure, this might be the expectation of many. The assumption is that women are fragile when they’re pregnant. A dominatrix couldn’t possibly continue to adequately dominate her subs in her pregnant state. And do adult work as a pregnant woman? Oh no, her body is now a “sacred vessel.”

Besides which, with her giant, pregnant belly, is she even attractive anymore?

Empress Ming laughs in the face of such assumptions. “It’s understandable that some men may prefer the aesthetic of a woman with a sixpack and tight body,” she stated in an email interview with me, “and prefer a Dominatrix that meets…

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Emme Witt-Eden
Sensual: An Erotic Life

Sex, relationships, and culture writer. Kink expert. Author of Confessions of a Middle-Aged F-Girl. emmewitt.com