Sexy—It’s Not Just an Adjective

Pondering the erotic, the difference between the visual and the cerebral, and what it means to be ‘sexy’

Ena Dahl
Ena Dahl
Feb 16 · 8 min read

Of course I think you’re sexy. You have great tits—and a nice ass!

What ‘sexy’ isn’t

It’s not simply visual

It can’t be measured

It isn’t tied to specific body parts

So, what is ‘it’?

‘Sexy’ is an energy

‘Sexy’ can be ‘tapped into’—and even learned

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Ena Dahl

Written by

Ena Dahl

Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

Sensual: An Erotic Life

A sex-positive community for exploring and sharing.

Ena Dahl

Written by

Ena Dahl

Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

Sensual: An Erotic Life

A sex-positive community for exploring and sharing.

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