The Hazard of Exploring Your Sexuality With Your “Vanilla” Friends
They might see your sexual awakening as “dirty” instead of groundbreaking.
What do I mean when I say that there’s a “hazard” to exploring your sexuality with your “vanilla” friends? I don’t mean that this is dangerous in any way — just problematic.
How? Let me explain.
First off, I should define what I mean by “vanilla.” For me, vanilla signifies those people who don’t work in the sex industry and/or have never explored their sexuality in an alternative way.
I have. I’ve worked in all areas of the sex industry, and have journeyed to the outer limits of my comfort zone when it comes to my sexuality.
This doesn’t make me a better or more “authentic” person. On the contrary — I don’t think that everyone should do sex work or even explore unconventional forms of sex.
Not doing that doesn’t make you a lesser person. It’s all up to personal choice. I’m open-minded.
However, “vanilla” people tend to be less open-minded, which is problematic when they find themselves around me.
Especially when I’ve chosen to include them in my sexual experimentation.
