What Is a Casual Relationship and Is It For You?

There’s a difference between casual sex and relationships.

Demeter V Delune
Sensual: An Erotic Life
5 min readDec 11, 2024

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When you first hear the term casual relationship, you may think this refers to casual sex. And it can, but there may be a little more involved. Casual relationships are a type of relationship where the people involved do not expect a commitment from each other. Instead, they’re together to have fun with no intention of getting married and having kids someday. While a relationship can be casual, the term “relationship” is often associated with the term “serious.” In this context, a relationship is more committed and tends to be monogamous, while a casual date is more open and not as serious.

You may be drawn to casual relationships because of the freedom from rules and expectations that often come with more traditional romantic relationships. When expectations are absent, you may feel more free to have fun and to date as many people as you want, maybe even at the same time.

Communication Is Key in a Casual Relationship

The key to truly enjoying a casual relationship is for both parties to have an explicit understanding of the kind of relationship they are participating in. Unclear communication leads to misunderstandings that can be fatal to any relationship…

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Demeter V Delune
Demeter V Delune

Written by Demeter V Delune

S*x educator, Freelance Writer for hire, Journalist. Words in Passionfruit, Pleaser, MamaMia, Giddy, Petit Mort, Daily Dot, Your Tango| demeterdelune.com

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