What Is Cuckqueaning and How Can You Get Started?

It’s not cheating and it can be so hot.

Demeter V Delune
Sensual: An Erotic Life
4 min readSep 6, 2024

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We often hear about men being cuckolded, but rarely do we talk about their female counterparts, cuckqueans. A cuckquean is a woman who is aroused by her partner engaging in sexual activity with another partner. The pleasure derived from the activity can be masochistic in nature and may include a humiliation component, just like with a man in the same situation.

The term cuckquean is derived from the term cuckold, which traditionally means a man whose wife is adulterous. In this instance, the meaning varies slightly, as the partner in question is not being deceived, but in fact, is complicit in the activity.

Cuckqueaning can be a fetish or a kink. It’s the less popular stepsister of its male equivalent. But men aren’t the only ones who have a masochistic desire to watch their one-and-only with someone else. As every other gender role is upended, kinky women embrace cuckqueaning as a way to get their fetish fix of submission, humiliation, and loss of control.

Although it’s not required, a lot of couples who engage in cuckolding or cuckqueaning are members of the swinging lifestyle. Oftentimes, this is how the kink or fetish comes to light. When they first see their partner with someone else, this can be when they realize…

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Demeter V Delune
Sensual: An Erotic Life

S*x educator, Freelance Writer for hire, Journalist. Words in Passionfruit, Pleaser, MamaMia, Giddy, Petit Mort, Daily Dot, Your Tango| demeterdelune.com