Why Women Need to Write Our Way Free From the ‘Rules’ of Sex and Shame

Having sex with someone you love should never feel like guilt

Photo by Alexis Reyna on Unsplash

At 19, I fell spectacularly in love for the first time.

Until then, I never understood why they call it “falling,” but fall it was — headlong, headfirst,
right down deep into love




We publish essays, and poetry about sex, sexuality and erotic relationships.

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Danielle Loewen

Danielle Loewen

she/her | reader | queer feminist | recovering academic | body lover | gamer | poet & fabulist

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