Would I Still Feel Like A Woman Without My Lady-Parts?

How much of my external self informs my feelings of femininity?

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Last night as I was getting undressed for bed my husband James came up behind me and cupped my breasts. “These still take my breath away,” he said as he fondled them and kissed my neck. I love how after all these years together James still finds my body fascinating. I’m grateful that in middle age, I still…




We publish essays, and poetry about sex, sexuality and erotic relationships.

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