You Have to Take People Mostly for Who They Are

Not who you would like them to be

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You don’t always get an option about who is in your life. Cranky co-workers and nagging aunts may be something that you’ll have to figure out how to navigate, but for the most part, you do have choices about who is in your world. And if you can’t take those people for 95% of who they are when you meet them, I think you’ve got…




We publish essays, and poetry about sex, sexuality and erotic relationships.

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Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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