Sexuality

Bad Sex Is Optional When You Own Your Pleasure

Know what you want and then ask for it

Stacey Herrera
Mar 9, 2020 · 5 min read
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I was not born multiorgasmic

Claiming my pleasure

Self-pleasure days

Adding a partner to the mix

It’s not someone else’s job to please me

Your pleasure is your responsibility too

Are there certain comforts that make sensual gratification more likely for you?

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