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Age-Gap Sex and Sexual Fantasies

Why are we so fascinated with MILFS, Cougars, Sugar Daddies, Girls Next Door, and hot young studs?

Veronica Sully
3 min readMay 15, 2023

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The age gap in sexual fantasies is stronger than ever. I’m going to explain what I mean by that and take a look at why this might be.

First and foremost, what is an age-gap sexual fantasy? On the surface, it’s exactly what it sounds like. A fantasy to fuck someone that is not close in age to you. For example, an older man may have a fantasy about fucking the nineteen-year-old girl next door. It might be a teen boy fantasizing about fucking an older woman.

We’ve all heard the terms MILF and Cougar, right? Both are prime examples of age-gap fantasies. These fantasies often go both ways. Older people want to fuck younger people, and younger people want to fuck older people.

Great, sounds like a party. Can I join? But why is this? That’s a damn good question and one that we need to explore.

My take on this is that it’s deeply rooted in the concept of the grass being greener on the other side of the fence. Young men and women want the satisfaction of fucking someone much older than them for a multitude of reasons. It can boost one’s confidence knowing that someone more mature and experienced chose you. It can also be the…

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Veronica Sully
Sex, Love and Relationships

Author and blogger of relationships, sexuality, sex, cheating, and adultery. Sexologist and student of life.