It’s a path, filled with curves and potholes, but also some delightful adventures.

In Praise of Dating Process & Trusting Yourself

I’m a very process-oriented person, so my approach to finding polyamorous play partners is no different than anything else in my life.

Try, refine, test it, revise, repeat.

But the primary source of new people in this lifestyle is dating apps, and those can be quite tricky. You have to match up the timing, the location and in some cases, which app you are…