Midnight Musings of The Saucy Mrs.

The Gander Is All for It, but the Goose Better Not Even Try

He wants to control everything I do, but be free to do what he wants

Alice Harford
Sex, Love and Relationships
5 min readDec 16, 2022

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Photo by AMY PLACE on Unsplash

What is going on with December’s weather this year?

Don’t get me wrong, I love that I am sitting outside under the full moon and a clear sky… it’s hovering around freezing… but I miss the snow of my youth. I miss having snow to admire, play in, and even shovel. I love shovelling snow. Always have.

Maybe it’s the hot chocolate when I come I love. Who knows? But I do love the snow and crisp, icy air of winter.

Tonight, though, I’m reflecting on two articles I read on Medium.com. The Gender Gap In Polyamorous and Non-Monogamous Relationships by Veronica Sully and The Demographics of Polyamorous and Non-Monogamous Relationships by Terminal Impala.

These writers discuss the breakdown of gender roles in polyamorous and non-monogamous relationships. Considering what Hubs has said to me in the past, it’s definitely something I’ve had on my mind a time or two.

Hubs’ opinion is that women have it easy in open marriages and relationships. He has told me so, more than once.

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Alice Harford
Sex, Love and Relationships

Just a saucy Mrs. trying to roll with the punches and changes life keeps throwing at her. And tellin’ y’all about it along the way.