What Swingers Do When They Get Stuck in a Sexual Rut

Because even swingers need to spice things up once in a while

Kiki Wellington
Sex…With a Side of Quirk

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When I think of swingers, I think of them literally swinging off the chandelier naked. I always imagine that they have an inferno in their bed that burns bright and continuously. But, according to a survey conducted for yours truly by 3Fun, an app that caters to swingers, this is not nearly the case. When the company surveyed around 300 of its users — which included single men, single women, and couples — they gave surprising answers about the sexual ruts they have experienced.

“We really need something to spice our life up, including our sex life. Otherwise, we may go into a marital crisis.”

3Fun told me that most of the couples they surveyed had indeed experienced a sexual rut in their relationship at one time or another, and these are the top reasons they gave for having them:

1. When everyday life takes over and people get stuck in their daily routine. It doesn’t leave one enough time together to explore their sexual desire.

2. When people get used to old things they are familiar with, especially when it comes to their sex life. The less the couples explore, the more they…

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