12 Ways to Dip Your Toes Into the Swinger Lifestyle While Staying Physically Monogamous

Harness the spirit of non-monogamy with your monogamous partner

Sarah Stroh
Nov 20, 2020 · 6 min read

1. Talk about your celebrity crushes

2. Scour the Tindersphere

3. Roleplay

4. Get a sex doll

5. Watch pornography

6. Go on dirty roulette

7. Go to a strip club

8. Discuss how you’d have a threesome (without having one)

9. Flirt with other people

10. Call a phone sex line

11. Go to a play party

12. Play a sexy video game

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Sarah Stroh

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New Yorker living in Berlin. I overshare stories about sex positivity, love, and non-monogamy. Get more details on my monogamish life 👉 https://bit.ly/2I81N62

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New Yorker living in Berlin. I overshare stories about sex positivity, love, and non-monogamy. Get more details on my monogamish life 👉 https://bit.ly/2I81N62

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