Why Many Women Don’t Orgasm During Sex
It Isn’t Always The Man’s Fault!
For a long period of time, women have thought that orgasm during sex is limited to one specific gender. Women are of the view that while one gender’s orgasm is a necessity, the other’s is just a far fetched privilege!
I had a friend who struggled with dissatisfaction in her sex life with her husband. She was always the one who was being left unfinished between the act. Her husband was always the only one to finish.
It was only when she went to a therapist when she discovered a true sense of closure. The therapist suggested she go back and allow herself to explore her own body.
Though it did have a momentary joyous experience, the impact was a long-lasting one in her life.
Often the common reasons boil down to little or no knowledge about one’s own sexual needs and preferences. This should not be the current situation. I believe no women should have to resort to a therapist for her to be told this. I hope this article reaches more and more women in the world and help us all be better in bed, for ourselves.
It’s Not Just Guys Who Jerk Off
Masturbation is often thought of as being limited to guys stroking themselves for sexual pleasure. Women often don’t know the fact that masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of.
Women gotta know that unless you know and explore your own body, there’s little chance that you’ll be confident enough to let the other person know about your desires.
Touch yourself with joy. Not with apprehension. Touch every part of your body. Explore what gives you what you crave. Don’t just limit yourself to the sweet vagina. Touch every part to know what turns you on.
Often married women don’t orgasm during sex with their husbands. In such times, women often find that self-pleasure provides them with what they had been missing the whole time.
More importantly, when you know something, never hold yourself back from letting it be known to your partner during sex. More often than not, it’ll lead to more pleasure for both of you.
Jill off, girl!
Sex Is Not Just About Penetration
Men and women need to understand how different sex as an experience can be for them. For men, penetrative sex culminates in orgasm almost all the time. For women, this is not so common.
Women are not wired that way. The most sensitive region for women is not the vagina, but the clitoris just above it. Many women don’t climax due to a lack of foreplay and clitoral stimulation.
I’ve noticed that I orgasm a lot more when oral sex is involved. It becomes even more pleasurable when a man does it willingly, and not just as a job wanting to get something in return.
There could be a varied range of ways and body points for women to feel pleasure. You have to work and find out what works best for you.
You’ll know when you know!
Women Want To Enjoy Sex, Right?
It’s not your fault for wanting more. It’s nothing wrong with feeling that sex is so much more about the male gender finishing off. It’s not wrong to feel that your male partner is doing a great job in bed.
If he’s not, tell him. If you don’t know what to tell him, explore yourself, and search for what’s missing. This will lead to better sex and orgasms for both of you.
Sex is all about mutual pleasure. Never let sex become a mechanical activity that you involve yourself in, just to make it a pleasurable experience for the person in bed with you.
I like being on top. I like kissing you. I like cuddling with you. I love the feeling of riding and feeling you inside me. I love your tongue tasting my sweet folds. I love the feeling of being able to thrust your face in between my thighs.
I Love Sex. I Want To Enjoy Sex.
BONUS — For Men And Women!
Women around the world are still shy to talk about sex. Let alone talking about ways of increasing pleasure during sex.
I want people to come forward. Men and Women.
Share your stories. Share your ideas. Share your frustrations. Share how you’ve lived without ‘The Big-O’. Share how you felt when you reached the earth-shaking experience. How often do you feel your husband finishes after you? How often do you feel sad that you finished early, while your wife wanted more? How often have you tried to make it better for her?
Talk about it and Learn and Explore!
Even if you’ve never reached out to me, go ahead. Let’s see what we can learn from each other! I’m there for you on simpson.chloe.cs@gmail.com.
If you wish to know what 3 THINGS that changed SEX for me, click here!
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