4 Riding Tips for Better Girl on Top Sex
Unlike the popular public disclaimer, do try these at home
There is a better way to ride your man.
While watching random YouTube videos the other day, I learned four riding tips for a more pleasurable “cowgirl” position. You may already know about these tips but they were new to me.
Here are the four ways to ride better.
Think Outside the Bed
Anyone who’s been in a long-term relationship knows that sometimes you have to get creative in the bedroom (or elsewhere in the house) to keep things exciting.
When your girl is riding on top, think outside of the bed. Think “couch surfing.”
The couch is often overlooked as a potential surface for your sexy shenanigans. But the truth is, the couch can actually be a great place to get it on.
For starters, it’s usually just as comfortable and sometimes even more comfortable than the bed. It’s definitely better than the floor where you might so end up with unwanted rug burns.
Ouch!
Additionally, there are usually more things to grab onto for stability on the couch, which can be a godsend when you’re trying to stay upright. Falling is funny but it’s not particularly sexy. 😆
Because the guy can sit up on the couch, it might be easier to find the right angles for optimal pleasure. This opens up a whole new world of possibilities when it comes to position changes.
The next time you’re feeling frisky, consider taking your girl on top for a spin on the couch. You might just be surprised at how much fun you have.
One Legged Riding
As any woman knows, maintaining your balance can be a challenge — especially when you’re in the middle of a passionate encounter.
That’s why it’s important to choose your positions carefully. When your girl is riding on top of you, for instance, she can kneel with one knee and keep the other leg straight and on the floor for better balance and control.
She might have her right knee buried in the couch and her left leg “standing” with her left foot flat against the floor.
This makes maneuvering mid-ride much smoother. And who doesn’t love a smooth ride? It also means that she can go harder and faster without worrying about falling off. Plus, it’ll be easier for you to grab onto her hips and help guide her movements.
Remember to use all your supports: the couch, the wall, and your partner.
Don’t Be Afraid of Sex Chess
When it comes to riding on top on the couch, there are all sorts of different positions and games you can play. If you want to make things even more interesting, you can play a little “sex chess” while you’re at it.
To play “sex chess,” all you need to do is take turns moving yourselves, your partner, or any body parts.
For instance, you might start by moving your arm around her waist. Then she can respond by grinding against you or kissing your neck. With each move, try to increase the pleasure for your partner.
You could start by kissing their neck and then move down to their breasts.
Or, you could rub their clitoris while they ride you. The possibilities are endless. Just have fun and enjoy exploring your partner’s body.
The options are endless.
But the key is to keep things unpredictable and spontaneous. That way, you’ll both stay fully engaged and excited throughout the entire encounter.
Toggle Sexual Dominance
When you’re on top of your partner during sex, you have a lot of power. You get to control the tempo and the depth of penetration.
But sometimes, being in charge can be a bit overwhelming.
If you’re starting to get tired, simply tap your partner on the shoulder and let him take over. He can hug you from behind and continue thrusting. This position is one of my favorites, but it can be pretty physically demanding.
So I like to toggle the power back and forth between me and my partner. That way, we both get a chance to relax and enjoy the ride.
Pro Level Riding Tips
Here are some pro riding tips for the girl on top position:
- Start slowly and build
- Use Kegels while riding on top (trust me)
- Slide your partner’s penis 90% of the way out and then 100% back in while riding (takes a bit of practice but it can feel amazing)
- Press your clit against your partner and grind
- Use bedroom pillows for support (it’s more comfortable)
- Be vocal about what you like, don’t like, and what you want to happen
- Embrace your body and the moment with your partner
By the way, if you want to watch the video that inspired this article, it’s this one from Stella Williams:
My favorite line from the video is, “Don’t snap a dick.”
Final Thoughts
From a guy’s perspective, I also enjoy this position because it gives me a break to build up more stamina and because I tend to last longer in bed.
While the position feels good — especially based on the angle and pressure — I find that I’m so deep that my dick isn’t as sensitive. Since I often prefer longer bouts in bed, this is a major advantage.
Thanks for reading!
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