7 Important Lessons in My Son’s Most Viewed Porn Videos

Take those parenting moments where you can find them.

Benjamin Davis
Jun 13, 2019 · 3 min read
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Lesson #1 — Sex is about respect

Lesson #2 — Safe words are important

Lesson #3 — You’re not alone in your shame

Lesson #4 — Don’t expect people to sound like they do in porn

Lesson #4 — Have a healthy understanding of sex toys

Lesson #5 — Real-life sex isn’t as get-up-and-go

Lesson #6 — There are masturbation safe zones

Lesson #7 — Japan

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Columnist and author. My writing is like a bunch of people at a party trying to tell different jokes at the same time. benjamindaviswriter.com

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