7 Sex Resolutions That You’ll Want to Keep
Spruce up your sex life in 2021 and beyond
As we begin to get settled into the new year, we generally start thinking about how to create new habits that will help us improve. However, these resolutions may not extend to the bedroom — but they really should. If you want to do something to spruce up your sex life in 2021, consider the following seven tips.
Have Solo Sex Next to Your Partner
This tip may sound counterintuitive because, after all, doesn’t masturbation defeat the purpose of having your partner right there? However, according to Dr. Wyatt Fisher, author of marriage book Total Marriage Refresh, doing this can actually improve your sex life in multiple ways.
“Masturbating next to your partner can be very intimate and bonding,” he said. “First, it allows your partner to experience you in a very vulnerable state. Second, it allows them to observe where and how you touch yourself. Third, it allows you to fully focus on receiving pleasure, rather than giving.”
“Couples can keep the fire burning by encompassing a kinder, lighthearted attitude towards sex.” — Megan Harrison