A Beginner’s Guide to Getting Kinky
Blindfolds and cuffs and dirty talk oh my!
What comes to mind when you hear people say they are kinky? Do you envision BDSM sex dungeons full of torture devices like whips and chains? Or perhaps you have watched kinky porn with scantily-clad women hanging upside-down ball-gags in their mouths and nipple clamps on their breasts?
You may think to yourself that with these kinds of descriptions you would never consider the world of kink, but with the right partner, experimenting with kinks can be both exciting and liberating.
One of my favorite nights of kinky fun was at the swingers club. I was there with some girlfriends and we spent time eyeing the room to pick out who we thought were the best looking guys.
One of my friends and I settled on the same guy and I made eye contact from across the room. He smiled back and then I went back to my conversation amongst my girlfriends. As the night wore on, one of my girlfriends told me that she was going to go over to the cute guy and talk to him. I told her (somewhat jokingly) that I would really like him to come over and spank me on the spanking table.
Walking arm in arm with one girlfriend, we went over to a room with the spanking table to watch another couple engaging in sex and I felt a tap on my shoulder…
