A Survival Guide for Successful Outdoor Sex

The Seven Principles of Leave No Trace rewritten: Minimum impact practices for sex outside

Ena Dahl
Ena Dahl
Feb 13, 2020 · 6 min read

Stepping out of the zone and into the unknown is a huge reason why outdoor sex is a good idea.

If you haven’t dug your nails in the dirt and inhaled the scent of petrichor with your partner’s sweaty skin against yours — well, I can think of a few items for the ol’ bucket list!

1. Plan ahead and prepare

Having a few things handy allows you to get frisky on a dime. Here’s a few practical items to add to your outdoor sex-kit:

2. Know your local ‘lewd-act’ laws

Even though we’re all born naked, nudity, and especially sex-acts in public, are considered serious offenses in many parts of the world.

3. Dispose of waste properly

All the stuff I recommended in point one; don’t leave any of it behind. Whenever we spend time in nature, or anywhere outside for that matter, we should aim to leave no trace.

4. Leave what you find

Don’t leave anything behind—and don’t take anything with you. Again, it’s all about not leaving a trace.

5. Respect wildlife

There might not be a lot of wildlife in the city, all though, in Berlin we have a ton of foxes roaming around our parks—I spotted two this morning already.

6. Be considerate of other visitors

Consent doesn’t only apply to physical touch: No one should ever be put in a situation where they’re forced to watch a sex act.

7. Have an exit-strategy

In the case that your adventure goes rogue; you’re surprised by unwelcome visitors or in danger of getting caught — either by the cops or in a nasty rainstorm — make sure you can quickly and easily throw on that handy shawl or robe and get your butt out of ‘danger’ and into safety, or under-cover.

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Ena Dahl

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Ena Dahl

Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

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Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

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