Act Safe in BDSM
In BDSM, you increase power and tempo, and the situation becomes even more complicated.
Spending time with other people is not always safe. Have sex is not secure. In BDSM, you increase power and tempo, and the situation becomes even more complicated.
When you want to meet people for BDSM, start with the same safety rules as for other dating. Meet in a neutral place, and tell someone where you are. Also, think about which are your limits before you meet. If you are submissive, learn the risks of different techniques. Set your limits when suggestions come up.
Know what you are doing
Certain BDSM activities are well known through popular books and movies. Thus, beginners may want to try these thinking them innocent BDSM. Unfortunately, what looks sexy on film or photo is not always safe and practical to try out for yourself.
Nothing you do is without risk. Complete safety is an impossible goal. Humans are complex beings, and no one is flawless. It’s not always the scenes that look most violent that are the most dangerous.
With a combination of knowledge and common sense, you can act safely. Technical security is not enough; safe action should direct your whole approach.
