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But I Look Nothing Like My Partner’s Celebrity Crush

Or favorite porn star, for that matter. Should I worry?

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Early on in our relationship, I looked through my now-husband’s browser history to find his porn activity. Pornography websites allow you to filter by keywords like “threesome” as well as kinks, hair color, race, and weight of the mattress actress.




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Sophie Radvan

Sophie Radvan

Full-time writer based in Minnesota. Big fan of dogs, tattoos, sweatpants, dessert, literature, interior design, horror movies, and art studies.

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