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Do You Have Your Consent to Masturbate?

I now practice “self-consent” to be sexually happier

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From an early age, masturbation was shrouded in shame. This was a huge obstacle to me becoming sexually happy.

I don’t know what happened. Maybe an adult scolded me for self-touching when I was 4. All I remember is being 5 and in my bedroom, thinking about famous baseball players…




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Phoenix Huber

Phoenix Huber

Trans girl. Beyond-human ally. I unite with members of my species for all sentient beings. Free hug: uberpath@gmail. Feed me:

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