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During Oral Sex, You May Want to Get Clear on Who It’s “For”

One conversation could change everything.

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Taylor loves giving oral sex. But Simon, Taylor’s partner, feels uncomfortable receiving it.

He doesn’t like to be the center of attention. Every time he receives head, he worries his partner isn’t having fun and is only doing it for his sake. His libido shuts down.




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