He Didn’t Make Me Cum, so I Made Him Leave

The guy who came ‘too fast’, and left even faster

Ena Dahl
Sexography
Published in
6 min readNov 11, 2019

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This specific one-night-stand didn’t end on a sweet note, it did, nonetheless, end rather abruptly.

Less than a few years ago, I didn’t have the guts to kick a guy out because he was being selfish in bed. In my story, Sex 2.0, this is how I handled the situation back then:

When we got to his place I was bursting with excitement.

What followed was a mere ten-minute quickie before my bad-boy yawned and passed out. Grudgingly, I accepted that there was no more bursting in the cards for me that night.

Hot, bothered and somewhat befuddled, I rolled over:

— After all of that build-up, that was it?

Basically, I sucked it up, thinking that being treated like a human masturbatory tool is simply part of being a woman.

Thankfully, now I know better.

I didn’t plan for it to be a one night stand

I started out with the best of intentions, not necessarily of meeting Mr. Right—I’m not sure I believe in the concept anyway—but he seemed like someone I wanted to get to know better.

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Ena Dahl
Sexography

Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink & sensuality coach, educator, author, energy worker & rope (s)witch.