How to Know If You Are Bad at Sex

For all genders and sexual orientations.

Benjamin Davis
May 23, 2019 · 4 min read
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There is judgment involved

If you are with someone who judges your sexual preferences and makes you feel ashamed, you are with the wrong fucking person.

You’re not listening to your partner

You are not speaking your mind

You’re being too selfish or too giving

Don’t be John Goodman.

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Columnist and author. My writing is like a bunch of people at a party trying to tell different jokes at the same time. benjamindaviswriter.com

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Conversations about sex from all around the world

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