How To Masturbate Like A Pro
You don’t have to masturbate now or today, tomorrow will do just fine.
So, you’re horny and you’re thinking of touching yourself, but the question is:
Do you really need to?
Do you have to?
These are very important questions, because they lead you into figuring out how best to be intimate with yourself. So much of masturbation happens all of a sudden, and we deprive ourselves of setting the right tone for our bodies to vibrate to.
Set the tone
Knowing the time you will indulge in self gratification changes the entire experience. The kind of day or week you’d have plays a huge role in your ability to determine how you would masturbate.
Once you know the tone, you can determine your mood.
Know your mood
How do I feel?
Am I at peace?
These are lighthearted questions we can ask ourselves to know if masturbation is even necessary for us at a given time. A stressed out week requires proper diet and sleep, not masturbation. Indulging will only pile up your problems and give your body a harder time to recover.
Once you allow self awareness thrive, you’re able to break the cycle of spontaneity and become intentional.
How do I masturbate
Do I need just a photo?
Are my imaginations enough?
Is porn too much?
Would a phone call cut it?
These are valid questions that come up when we allow our mood take frontline. Sometimes all we need is our thoughts, sometimes we just need a pillow, knowing how to masturbate beats the very act itself.
Timing
The idea of timing is not in scheduling, but in the prioritization of our day, of our lives. Masturbation has to fit into our life, our week, month, it should make our healthy routines even healthier. Self gratification doesn’t always have to be this weird compromise.
You don’t have to masturbate now or today, tomorrow will do just fine. Eat good, exercise, decompress, wake up strong, then touch yourself into a new chill day.
Masturbation and self love are synonymous
More often than not we ascribe self gratification to externalities, we conceive the idea as one that is seperate from us.
Truth is, during masturbation, you aren’t just pleasuring and doing things to yourself but, you’re learning and becoming aware of your state of mind via erotica. You are choosing and pondering what’s best for you, through an erotic medium. You are therapizing yourself through erotica and touch.
Self touch and love doesn’t come without vulnerability, you have to be free from shame and guilt as much as you can. Our vulnerable state during masturbation calls for really selective and healthy erotica that would sync with our headspace, delicate enough to nurture it and not sabotage.
Self love requires engaging in activities best for our well being, and masturbation can enhance that. Once self gratification enriches our thoughts and leads us into better self perception, then we can boldly say we masturbate like professionals.
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