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I Don’t Always Want to “Come First”

“She comes first” is a nice idea, but it puts too much pressure on us ladies.

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For a long time, I thought I had a problem when it came to sex.

I was having “trouble” orgasming. Specifically, it was hard for me to have an orgasm before my partner did.




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