In a Sexless Marriage, the Spouse Who Wants Sex Should Get a Hall Pass
It’s the ethical thing to do but most married partners would never allow it.
Meet Partners A and B. They’re in a monogamous relationship. However, Partner A no longer wants to have sex with Partner B.
They’re married and Partner A does not want to divorce Partner B. Nevertheless, Partner A is tired of Partner B pestering them for sex.
What’s the solution? There are several.
Solution #1: Partners A and B can continue to live together in this impasse, which will lead to more marital strife and misery.
Solution #2: Partner B can cheat on Partner A with another person. This is the most typical choice.
If Partner A finds out, this will crush them. Partner B also has to lead a life of secrecy and lies, which is uncomfortable.
Solution #3: Partner A comes to terms with the fact they no longer want to have sex with Partner B and instead allows Partner B to pursue sexual relations with other people.
Partner A effectively gives Partner B a hall pass. Yes, this is like when we were kids and we had to ask the teacher for a hall pass to go to the bathroom.
