Learning to Enjoy Oral Doubled My Pleasure and Saved Me From Self-Doubt
I avoided receiving oral for a decade, please don’t make the same mistake I did.
I’m a massive fan of oral sex, but I always used to get weird whenever a partner wanted to reciprocate.
Anytime a partner would start to move their mouth towards my lower hemisphere, every muscle in my body would tense. I would quickly find a way to alleviate the tension and avoid the awkwardness by going all-in on giving some more.
The truth was, I had convinced myself that I didn’t, and couldn’t, enjoy receiving oral.
It didn’t matter how, when, and where he offered it. I wouldn’t even allow a kiss in that direction.
I wasn’t lying; I didn’t like it.
But what I didn’t like wasn’t the oral sex. It was everything that came along with it. I was much more comfortable having penetrative sex than having another person’s face all up in my most intimate bits. It was nearly unthinkable to allow that kind of intimacy with anyone. My head was filled with a constant stream of worries the second they made a move in that direction:
Did I miss any hair while trimming down there?
Do I taste clean?
Do I smell okay?
Why do my thighs…
