Many People Suck at Giving Oral Sex: Could You be One Of Them?

The devil is in the detail

Dona Mwiria
Sexography

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Let me tell you a little secret, there is a big chance that your oral skills are basic. If you’re one of those who think having your mouth on his penis drives him nuts or having a tongue on her clit gives her fireworks, well, sorry to disappoint you, you’re basic, and there’s a huge chance your partner wishes some other guy or gal was the one down there.

Oral sex is one of the quickest ways to get your partner off, but my goodness, the number of people who admit to faking an orgasm during oral sex or those who admit to never having climaxed is alarming. And yes, you’re to blame!

But worry not. As a sexually liberated female, I will free you from captivity and in no time you’ll move from ordinary to extraordinary. Here’s some really basic things you can incorporate.

First and foremost, make your partner feel comfortable. It may seem obvious you’ll be surprised by the number of people who just dive into it. I know spontaneity is hot and all, but you want to know what’s even hotter?… Comfort. The surest way to make one comfortable is to get their enthusiastic consent.

Oral sex is all about sucking, licking and nibbling genitals fun ways to play with our most delicate parts. And, of course, be…

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Dona Mwiria
Sexography

I have a Masters degree in Biochemistry. I write about science, sexuality and relationships. If you you enjoy research with a touch of humor… I’m your writer