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My Desire Is Hetero, but My Pleasure Is Bisexual

At age 33, I’m digging into what it means to be “straight”

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Unlike many people who identify as LGBTQ+, I have never been forced to reckon with my sexual orientation. As a heterosexual cisgender female, I’ve always liked the gender I was “supposed to” like.




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