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Single People: Stop “Jump Scaring” Your Partners With Your Past

The perils and dangers of “truth bombing”

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Most of us know about “love bombing” — when a new or potential partner floods us with love, attention, and the sweet addictive brain orgasm of dopamine.

Fewer people talk about “truth bombing.” Or, what I call “jump scaring” other people with your past.




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