So You Think You Can ‘Dom’?

The step-by-step guide to sensual domination.

Ena Dahl
Ena Dahl
Nov 7 · 8 min read
Photo by Mi Ked—Used with permission from the artist

I’m referencing the televised dance show in the title because it makes a great metaphor for what a D/s relationship really is; a very delicate dance on the edge of power and surrender, and often, pleasure and pain.

It’s a dance that can take you to the highest of highs, and one where a slight misstep can cause you…

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Ena Dahl

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Ena Dahl

Sensualist, storyteller, artist, muse | Space alchemist & transmuter of trauma through self-expression | Topics: sex and/or healing, pleasure, pain & poetry

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