The Ecstasy of Soul Sex

The soul is the ultimate lover.

Kim Petersen
Jan 26 · 4 min read
Image by @ sakkmesterke via Deposit Photos

Let’s talk about sex. I don’t mean the run-of-the-mill penetrative kind of sex that you’re used to reading about and have probably been practicing for a good portion of your adult life.

I’m talking about unearthly pleasures, sensual indulgences and exquisite peaks that exist within the deeper dimensions of your psyche — essentially, sex without the … erm … sex part.

Soul sex.

Sound weird?

There was a time when the notion of soul sex would have instantly evoked an eye roll. I would’ve dismissed it as some far-fetched concept reserved for the delusional.

So, it is important to clear this up at the onset — I’m not writing this post out of a psychiatric hospital. Promise. I am not delusional, either. But something has occurred between the time when I would have found soul sex difficult to fathom to arriving here, in this moment — I encountered somebody significantly.

Someone connected in soul.

If you stripped away your flesh and blood, what or who do you think you would be?

Socrates said: “That energy, or soul, is separate from matter and that the universe is made of energy — pure energy.”

Including us.

Take the atom for example — it’s the basic building block for matter. Quantum physics tells us that as we go deeper and deeper into the workings of the atom, we discover that there is nothing there — just energy waves.

It says an atom is actually an invisible force field — a kind of miniature tornado which emits waves of electrical energy.

Energy.

In the realm of sexual energy, we are talking about a life-force energy that is fundamental to our humanity. It is through our sexual energy that we cultivate a relationship with desire, creativity and connectedness — not only to others but also to ourselves.

It is through our sexual energy that we learn how to own our sacred human bodies. But we are more than flesh and bone. We are eternal beings experiencing a human life.

Soul sex is much more than just an intermingling of sexual energy and desire. It is the process of becoming aware of a part of yourself that is deeply connected to another — emotionally, sexually, and spiritually, and then allowing them access to look into your soul.

Making love in soul is the experience of completely opening yourself and surrendering to your partner. It is not unlike participating in a divine soul dance that becomes a fabric of who you are. Once your soul has recognized and united with its counterpart, you can never forget. Even if you wanted to.

This kind of lovemaking doesn’t feel like physical sex, yet it goes beyond any pleasure known in the physical form. It feels as if you are becoming one with all that is — a feeling of incredible love, connection and bliss. Perfection.

Completeness.

Merging with your soul counterpart is the definition of true love, energetic healing and intimacy because you are mating with your eternal lover — you are blending with a part of yourself that you’ve known since you came into creation.

This is why there is an element of healing that accompanies this sexual union. Through fusing in soul with your significant other, you are essentially connecting with the love of source energy. It’s like therapy for the heart and soul.

It’s like coming home.

When you allow someone access to your soul, you are granting them permission to precious places and buried secrets within. You are allowing them to:

See and feel you in soul.

Hear your soul voice.

Touch, caress and entangle your soul with their own.

Sense your smell.

Invade and own your heart.

Know, taste and excite you in soul.

Kiss and make love to your soul.

Experience you through intricate and personal pathways.

Love you in your entirety.

Granting this level of access to someone is a gift to each of you, and should be treated with the utmost of respect and privilege at all times. Unfortunately, knowing someone in soul doesn’t always equate with their outer personality and behavior.

The soul is eternally perfect. Humans are beautifully flawed.

When you encounter a person and sense their significance to you in soul, it is natural to become excited — but it’s worth stepping back to assess the situation and your soul counterpart in his human personality before investing emotionally as these divine connections have the ability to trigger all kinds of pain and mayhem. Despite the divinity surrounding the bond.

However, once the connection ignites and you have experienced fusion at the soul level, change is inevitable. This is when you realize that no other relationship or sexual encounter before was ever deep enough. That no other love compared, nor did it quench the thirst for the deep level and transcendental loving that you silently craved but never knew existed.

Until now.

If handled authentically, true soul union can only deepen as the connection itself deepens. It is an endless relationship made for continual discovery, self-growth and exploration; and it could be the purest love you’ve ever had the privilege to experience here on earth.

If you honor it.


Thank you for reading! More of my work at Whispering Ink.

Sexography

Conversations about sex from all around the world

Kim Petersen

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Author. Dreamer. Writing about Life, Death, Love & Connection and everything in between. www.whisperinginkpress.com

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