The Intimacy of Lesbian Sex Has Always Made Me Anxious

Meghan James
Nov 4 · 5 min read
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I knew I was gay when I was 14 and I came out shortly after. Since then, I’ve had many short relationships and occasional flings. What blows my mind is that I was never able to come at the (literal) hands of another woman until I was a sophomore in college. I’m sure I’m not the only one.

I’ve always found it annoying that a guy could have sex for one minute and come…

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Meghan James

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A lesbian college student who loves to challenge mainstream thinking and beliefs.

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