This is How I Want You To Spank Me

The fine art of spanking someone into a state of euphoria

Ena Dahl
Sexography
Published in
7 min readJun 13, 2020

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I love a good spanking.

With an emphasis on the word good.

But, not all spankings are equal

When it’s not quite right, it can be annoying, boring or just plain painful. When, on the other hand, you’re wholly immersed—when pain traverses pleasure and you reach a state where you’re so turned on you’re basically gushing—it’s nothing short of transcendent.

Why is it so? And, how can you take your spankee from the plateaus to the promised land?

To understand sexual sadomasochism, we need to realize that pleasure and pain go hand in hand and that the explanation for this is found in our brains and nervous system, where the receptors that register both are closely joined.

The BBC Future article on Why Pain Feels Good states that, “the link between pleasure and pain is deeply rooted in our biology. For a start, all pain causes the central nervous system to release endorphins — proteins which act to block pain and work in a similar way to opiates such as morphine to induce feelings of euphoria.”

The secret is in our psyche

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Ena Dahl
Sexography

Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink & sensuality coach, educator, author, energy worker & rope (s)witch.