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Transactional Sex Is a Silent Intimacy Killer

Behavioral-based sex cheapens intimacy

Woman’s legs with stockings up in the air — Transactional Sex Is a Silent Intimacy Killer
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Sex is meant as an expression of desire, pleasure, and love. Not as a transaction, bartering system for good behavior, or system of reward and punishment in a relationship.

Transactional sex is a silent intimacy killer.




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