Understanding Consensual Non-Consent

Fantasies of being taken have nothing to do with real-life rape- and they’re a lot more common than you might think.

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I don’t remember the first time I had a fantasy that involved dominance and force. I was about 12 when I started to discover my sexuality, and in the years between 8th and 10th grade I bent down the pages of…